- Oct. 31
- Richard Parker
Down but Not Out: Recover from Financial Disaster
We all like to think that we will never experience a personal financial disaster. We all want to believe that debt is something that happens to other people, not us. If we save well, spend carefully and keep a check on our finances, we’ll never have to deal with the issue of debt. That’s what we tell ourselves, but deep down we know it’s a lie.
We know that debt can take you without warning or reason. It could be because your personal business crashes or an unexpected bill. It could even be due to a lengthy period of redundancy. But while debt is a matter of chance, your recovery from it is all on you. You need to make sure you take the right steps to retrieve your finances from disaster. So, let’s look at how to get back on track after this type of disaster.
Don’t Be Embarrassed or Ashamed
It’s dangerous and somewhat counterproductive to be ashamed that your finances aren’t where they should be. If you feel ashamed of where you are, you won’t be able to get the help you need. Instead, you will sink further and further into the abyss, and soon you will have no hope of recovery. You don’t want to turn to friends and family support but you should. It’s far better to seek help here then to turn to a loan shark who could cripple you financially and not even care. Recovering might involve moving back in with your parents but you shouldn’t be ashamed of this. Financial experts actually believe this is a smart decision until you can financially support yourself.
Every Little Helps
Do make sure that you are working to recover your credit score which will no doubt be down the drain. A lot of people who have been in debt never want to borrow again, and this is of course, completely understandable. No one wants to hold the snake that has already bitten them once. But, borrowing isn’t dangerous unless it grows out of control. Borrowing a little can actually be helpful and will improve your credit score drastically.
There are even borrowing schemes that are set up so that people like you can easily get back on their feet. Remember, your credit rating is useful for everything from getting an apartment to getting certain jobs.
Do Get Legal Support
It is worth speaking to a bankruptcy attorney, particularly if you think that your finances are beyond repair. They will help you go through the appropriate channels and make sure that you get the support you need to recover. Bankruptcy claims can and often are rejected, and that’s why a lawyer is an essential expert who you must have on your team.
Make Money Now
Finally, make sure that you are taking chances that arise to make some extra money. You might be redundant right now, but you can still work from home. You can still build up your finances little by little, growing your income and helping you pay off small amounts of the money you owe.
Embarrassment was at the fore of my mind when I went bankrupt many years ago. I have recovered financially and am doing okay. However, mentally, it’ll always be there as a stark reminder.
Richie, I applaud you because you got back on your feet. Let that reminder be the inspiration you need to keep on going.
Appreciate that man!
Richie, hats off to you. I got into trouble and pride almost prevented me from seeking help. Sometimes a fresh pair of eyes and a new perspective are the only way to turn it around.
Thanks, Ciaran. I couldn’t bring myself to seek help, and I paid for it dearly. However, now I think I would be more open to discussing it with others.
It’s often the biggest hurdle, admitting you need help. But believe me, once you ask for it, it’s undoubtedly a problem shared.